Thursday, 28 August 2014
ADHD
Tuesday, 26 August 2014
Starting School Topic
DEALING WITH TEARS
Going to school for the first time is exciting, but it can also be pretty scarey, for the child and for the grownups! Teachers agree that helping small children settle happily into school is the most delightful, rewarding part of their job. Have confidence that the teacher will welcome and treasure your child and understand what a big step they are taking when they start school. Look at these few simple tips, chances are you’ll already be doing a lot of these things and your child will take to school like a duck to water!
Make sure that you have all the equipment and clothing required well ahead of time to avoid a last minute panic. If you panic so will your child!Let your child enjoy the fun of getting a new school bag, pencils and so on. If possible avoid any major changes at home in the weeks around the start of school, so that your child has a secure base. Its not a good week to begin your own new high flying career!If your child has special needs or health issues talk to the school about these before the start of the term. Don’t worry, they will have the right experience to cope.Make sure you know when and where your child should go on the first morning, Act naturally, don’t overdo promises that school will be fun or warn about how different[or difficult] it will be. Just talk pleasantly and sensibly about ‘going to school’ and remember that its a normal part of childhood- everyone does it!Give your child a simple description of what to expect, for example outline how the day will be organised, ending with ‘and then you come home.’ Remind them that the teacher is there to help them or answer any questions they might have, Remind yourself that teachers understand that starting school is a big step for small children and will be experienced and skilled at helping your child to settle in. Provide healthy but familar food if you send snacks or lunch to school with your child. Find out about any rules the school may have about the food children may bring (for example many schools do not allow peanuts in any form)
FIRST FEW WEEKS
Be prepared for your child to be very tired for the first few weeks, there is a lot to learn and take in at school. So I advise early bedtimes and normal routine while they are settling in. If your child does cry when you leave them, follow the school rules on what to do. Some schools will allow parents to stay for a little while before they have to leave, other schools will expect parents to leave as soon as school starts, even if their child is upset. My advice is to show your child that you are confident that they will be fine very soon. Children generally cry because they are upset at separating from their parent, not because they don’t like being at school. So remind your child that you will see them soon and remind yourself that separating is not going to be any easier whether you do it now or in half an hour’s time!Some children don’t settle at school well because they think they are missing out on better things at home. My advice is to keep a low profile on what you have done with younger brothers and sisters at home and save extra special treats for all the family to enjoy.
FREE SCHOOL MEALS
Every child in reception, year 1 and year 2 in state-funded schools will receive a free school lunch from September 2014, Deputy Prime Minister Nick Clegg has announced. The government will fund schools in England to provide every child in reception, year 1 and year 2 with a hot, nutritious meal at lunch time. The aim is to improve academic attainment and save families money – over the course of a year the average family spends £437 on school lunches per child. Universal free school meals for primary school pupils were a key recommendation in a recent review of school food produced independently for the Department for Education. The review found that, in pilots where all children have been given a free school dinner, students were academically months ahead of their peers elsewhere and more likely to eat vegetables at lunchtime instead of less healthy food like crisps. At the same time, the government will extend free school meals to disadvantaged students in further education and sixth form colleges.
What to put in your childs lunchbox?
Theres loads of choices to go for with Wraps, Bagels, Rolls Sandwhiches, Crackers, pita breads
You can have a chicken roll or a ham sandwhich or a cheese bagel or cheese on crackers or a tuna wrap
Please remember not to put peanut butter or nutella in your childs choice as other children may have nut allergies.
You can also put in a yogurt or a piece of fruit like a banana or a packet of raisens.
Some schools dont let you put in crips fpr your child as the seem to be 'unhealthy' for them so as a substitute you could put in some rice crackers orsome bread sticks or some babybells or some cocktail sausages.
For juice it is best to give them sugar free juice or fresh orange or apple juice
Breaktime Snacks
When your little ones first start school some schools let you have breaktime snacks so here are some options if your not sure what to do
You could give them:
a little pot of dry cereal
Some cucumber and carrot sticks
a cereal bar
a packet of raisins
fruit eg. an orange or a banana or an apple
Some schools have a snack bar for them at school if they wish to buy something, my sons school charges 20p a snack and 20p for a sugar free juice drink.
Starting school means the start of a huge list for School supplies! School supplies vary depending on how old your child is buy Here are some of the items you may require when starting school:
Uniform
school bag
pencil case
pens
pencils
scissors
glue stick
rubber
crayons
pencil sharpener
Ruler
Compass
notebook
folders
Assistance with school uniform is available if you claim any of the following:
Income Support
Income based job seekers allowance
Income related Employment and support allowance
Child tax and your income is less than £16,010
If you are 16-16 years olfd and receive any benefits for yourself
The clothing allowance is made once per school year, and payment is made directly to the applicant for the sum of £50 for every eligible child in primary or secondary school. For claims received after December, the sum of £25 is paid for every eligible child.
To apply you can dowmload an application pack from your local council's website
Wednesday, 20 August 2014
AUTISM
Monday, 18 August 2014
DEPRESSION
WHAT IS DEPRESSION?
Depression is a mood disorder that is characterised by a low mood and possible other symptoms. It is an illness that can develop quickly or slowly and is usually caused by changes in body chemisty or life events. Depression is more than just feeling unhappy for a few days. Those with Depression have constant low moods that can last years it's not something that you can just stop feeling.
Causes of Depression
There is not one cause of Depression. Depression can start due to anything. Depression can start because of life events such as Abuse, Conflict, Death, Major events, birth of a baby or due to medication, illness or possibly a family history of Depression.. Past physical, sexual, or emotional abuse can cause depression later in life. What happens in the brain to cause depression is not fully understood. Evidence suggests it may be related to changes in the levels or activity of certain chemicals – particularly serotonin, norepinephrine and dopamine – which are the three main chemicals related to mood and motivation that carry messages within the brain
Signs of Depression
Depression varys from person to person each person will have different signs of depression. There are common signs to look out for these are:
⦁ Feeling helpless or hopeless
⦁ loss of interest in daily activites
⦁ weight or appetite changes
⦁ sleep changes
⦁ anger or irritablity
⦁ loss of energy
⦁ self-loathing
⦁ Recklessness
⦁ problems concentrating
⦁ unexplained aches and pains
⦁ Feeling suicidal
It is important that if you notice any of these signs to seek medical attention.
Types of Depression
There are 9 different types of depression. These are
⦁ Major Depression - Also known and Clinical: Depression in which sadness and disinterest in once enjoyed activities interfere with how you function every day
⦁ Dysthymia Depression - Dysthymia is a type of depression that causes a low mood over a long period of time — perhaps for a year or more
⦁ Postpartum Depression - PostPartum Depression is characterized by feelings of extreme sadness, fatigue, loneliness, hopelessness, suicidal thoughts, fears about hurting the baby, and feelings of disconnect from the child. It can occur anywhere from weeks to months after
⦁ Seasonal affectice disorder - . Though many people find themselves in winter funks, SAD is characterized by symptoms of anxiety, increased irritability, daytime fatigue, and weight gain. This form of depression typically occurs in winter climates, likely due to the lessening of natural sunlight
⦁ Atypical Depression - one of the most common types of depression. Unlike other types of depression, people with atypical depression can be briefly cheered up by positive events, but they overreact to negative events
⦁ Psychotic Depression a mental state characterized by false beliefs, known as delusions, or false sights or sounds, known as hallucinations — doesn't typically get associated with depression however 20% of those with depression have episodes of psychotic depression.
⦁ Bipolar Disorder - If your periods of extreme lows are followed by periods of extreme highs, you could have Bipolar Disorder. Symptoms include feelings energetic or irratble, quick speaking, easily distracted , delusions of hallucinations.
⦁ Premenstrual dysphoric disorder - a type of depression that affects women during the second half of their menstrual cycles. Symptoms include depression, anxiety, and mood swings
⦁ Situational Depression - Situational depression is about three times more common than major depression, and medications are rarely needed : Symptoms of situational depression may include excessive sadness, worry, or nervousness, and if they don't go away, they may become warning signs of major depression.
Treatment part 1:
Treatment for depression usually involves a combination of medicines, talking therapies and self help.
Treatment options
The kind of treatment that your doctor recommends will be based on the type of depression you have. Below is a short description of the types of treatment your doctor may recommend.
Mild depression
Wait and see -
If you're diagnosed with mild depression, your depression may improve by itself. In this case, you'll simply be seen again by your GP after two weeks to monitor your progress. This is known as watchful waiting.
Exercise -
Exercise has been proven to help depression, and is one of the main treatments if you have mild depression. Your GP may refer you to a qualified fitness trainer for an exercise scheme or you can find out more about starting exercise here. Read more about exercise for depression.
Self help groups -
Talking through your feelings can be helpful. It can be either to a friend or relative, or you can ask your GP to suggest a local self-help group. Find out more about depression support groups. Your GP may also recommend self-help books and online cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT).
Treatment part 2:
Moderate to severe depression
Antidepressants - Antidepressants are tablets that treat the symptoms of depression. There are almost 30 different kinds of antidepressant. They have to be prescribed by a doctor, usually for depression that is moderate or severe.
Combination therapy -
Your GP may recommend that you take a course of antidepressants plus talking therapy, particularly if your depression is quite severe. A combination of an antidepressant and CBT usually works better than having just one of these treatments.
Mental health teams - If you have severe depression, you may be referred to a mental health team made up of psychologists, psychiatrists, specialist nurses and occupational therapists. These teams often provide intensive specialist talking treatments as well as prescribed medication.
Read more detailed information about these and other treatments below.
Talking treatments
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Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT)
Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) helps you understand your thoughts and behaviour and how they affect you.
CBT recognises that events in your past may have shaped you, but it concentrates mostly on how you can change the way you think, feel and behave in the present.
It teaches you how to overcome negative thoughts, for example being able to challenge hopeless feelings.
CBT is available on the NHS for people with depression or any other mental health problem that it has been shown to help.
You normally have a short course of sessions, usually six to eight sessions, over 10-12 weeks on a one-to-one basis with a counsellor trained in CBT. In some cases, you may be offered group CBT.
Online CBT
Computerised CBT is a form of CBT that works through a computer screen, rather than face to face with a therapist.
It's delivered in a series of weekly sessions and should be supported by a healthcare professional. For instance, it's usually prescribed by your GP and you may have to use the surgery computer to access the programme.
Ask your GP for more information or read more about online CBT and the courses available here.
Interpersonal therapy (IPT)
IPT focuses on your relationships with other people and on problems you may be having in your relationships, such as difficulties with communication or coping with bereavement.
There's some evidence that IPT can be as effective as antidepressants or CBT, but more research is needed.
Counselling
Counselling is a form of therapy that helps you think about the problems you are experiencing in your life to find new ways of dealing with them. Counsellors support you in finding solutions to problems, but do not tell you what to do.
Counselling on the NHS usually consists of six to 12 hour-long sessions. You talk in confidence to a counsellor. The counsellor supports you and offers practical advice.
Counselling is ideal for people who are basically healthy but need help coping with a current crisis, such as anger, relationship issues, bereavement, redundancy, infertility or the onset of a serious illness.
Getting help:
Your first port of call should be your GP, who can refer you for NHS talking treatments for depression available locally.
In some parts of the country, you also have the option of self-referral. This means that if you prefer not to talk to your GP you can go directly to a professional therapist.